I have been prepared to accept a bride IF you can present your self biblically attractive,,,please no mothers, unless you have been widowed and formerly merged with a righteous man according to the word of God,;;not adaptable to never married, divorced or widowed women involved with ungodly men, in like manner a never married, divorced or widowed woman involved with infidels would not be adaptable to a sanctified separated from the world lifestyle,Jesus came to deliver us from darkness and says If any man walk in the day, he stumbleth not, because he seeth the light of this world.,,,,,,
many men and women say they love God but have no idea of what Jesus says in the bible and as a result live miserable, shallow , messed up lives for making up Jesus in their mind, sure they mean well and want to do good but never looking to Gods word for support and guidance and wonder why your life crumbles, relationships fail,and just can't seem to get it together emotionally, do you know the word of God? have you specifically been educated in the proper conduct a respectable Christian woman is to present her self in as to be a good example to other women and pleasing to God otherwise known as godliness? I would like to know if you care to say because the word of God tells us,,A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. Proverbs 12:4,,,,,,,, my personality should be considered as,, intense, straight forward, legitimate, warm, compassionate, forgiving and you can take what I say at face value
The name of the Lord is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe. Proverbs 18:10
for a very very long time girls were watched over by their fathers, the fathers made sure their daughters were taken care of and well protected, these girls looked up to their fathers with great respect because it was seeing their fathers dignity,it was seeing their fathers integrity,it was seeing the way their fathers worked hard in providing a nice place for the family and taking charge and running the show, it was seeing how their brothers grew into decent men being taught by their fathers how to handle every day affairs and strongholds with ease and firmly take responsibility and make things happen and always do the right thing honestly and with great thought and care in establishing the success of their own familys, it was seeing their mothers create a pleasant atmosphere for all in the house to share in projecting her charm and strength with little more than a Psalm in her heart and her beautiful smile, these girls knew just the traits to look for and exactly what it takes for a man to be a man and a woman to be a woman, they lived it, they experienced it and they loved it, make no mistake about it ,this was the guidance and foundation for the proverbs 31 woman that prepared girls for marriage to their husbands, if you don't have the love and respect for your father girls, there's a very good chance you were never taught love or respect for your Father in heaven, then there is a very good chance you simply have not the love and respect for your self thus unable to love and respect any man.
The fear of the Lord tendeth to life: and he that hath it shall abide satisfied; he shall not be visited with evil.
most simply are not used to the righteousness
that the word of God express in Proverbs 31, Her husband is known in the gates when he sitteth among the elders of the land Proverbs 31:23, this is a married woman with a husband known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land that would signify a man of Great leadership, a man of accountability, a man of responsibility, a man of respect and high regard, a man of security, a man with years of experience that has taught, instructed and developed his helpmeet and virgin by the word of God and for the benefit and honour of God as God commands, just like the many christian men that have flushed their life and marriages and family's right down the drain many women have been married to these ungodly men and exposed to chaos and corruption that a legitimately covered woman would most certainly be protected from, many girls were never taught godliness in broken single parent family's and have been left single their whole life allowed to run around with other single non covered women to be silly and laugh and giggle and wish and pretend and think they can just pray every thing into existence never learning that decent and orderly conduct is a bold mark of closeness with God, many have obtained a seducing spirit that enables unusual tongues and babblings, many become delusional in puffed up ego and embolden false esteem with strangely out of place dyed hair, disfigured eye brows, caked on make up, fiery lipstick, elaborate jewelry, compromised clothing that means absolutely nothing in the Kingdom of God and new testament scripture clearly speaks against to both married and single because it reflects a vain and self obsessed woman that could never function correctly in a godly marriage and all for attention, all to say hey every one look at me taught that way from childhood as a woman of the world to seek recognition as an object to be chased around and toyed with, put on a pedestal and showered with flattery and then wonder why you are lied to, stepped on, cheated, put through the wringer then tossed away like a worn out shoe rather than when accepting Jesus repenting and forsaking the ways of the world being begotten of God by learning and trusting and obeying the word of God by enabling meaning and valuable conduct worthy of the purity and dignity and integrity and protection and preservation a Godly woman and sister in Christ is most certainly be entitled to
The sluggard will not plow by reason of the cold; therefore shall he beg in harvest, and have nothing.
marriage is not a free for all, its not an anarchy, its sure not a democracy,
a marriage is no different from a kingdom according to our Father in heaven and in each kingdom great and small there can only be one ruler, sara as a submissive and humbled wife obeyed her husband abraham and called him lord,,1 Peter 3:6,, ruth called a virtuous woman laid herself at the feet of boaz recognizing and identifying him as a righteous man because she her self was the widow of a righteous man,,ruth 3:7,,man is an extension of God, woman is an extension of man,Genesis 2:17,,1 Corinthians 11:8,9 after the fall God placed certain restrictions on the woman and gave man the authority, conviction, stability and strength of the relationship, Genesis 3:16 1 Corinthians 11:3 God gave all spiritual authority to the husband, any complex and detailed information a wife learns of God is to be taught by your husband and washed in the word as according to scripture to keep the record straight and things running smooth, Ephesians 5:25,26,, 1 Timothy 2:11,12,1 Corinthians 14:35 all crucial and logical decisions regarding the familys welfare and well being are made by the husband, being the emotional,passive weaker vessel side which is to say easily deceived through that emotion and vulnerability the wifes authority lies solely in raising the children and keeping the house and teaching the younger women to be good obedient wifes themselves to their own husbands- Titus 2:3-5 and providing a pleasant atmosphere for all in the home to share in, this is the way God made woman, this is where you are safe, happiest and most content, going beyond this you would only be stepping out side your boundaries and stirring up strife and will only destroy your covering, harden your heart make you tough and allow you to wander and go astray and stir up trouble and this is not a good thing,Proverbs 28:14,,submission to your husband is truly a blessing and for your own good and is nothing to be afraid of rather to be proud of as God sees fit 1 Peter 3:6, man was created to have a relationship with God and woman was created to have a relationship with the man because man is the image and glory of God but woman is the glory of the man.1 Corinthians 11:7 woman is mans possession, mans responsibility, mans helper given him directly from God, woman was created from the man for the man to be pleasing to the man in ways only you will know once God touches and humbles your heart, 1 Corinthians 11:8.9, take away the word of God, take away the godly man, take away the protection and preservation, take away the proper instruction and supervision and your left with a wounded animal backed against the wall kicking and screaming left alone in a scary world to fend for herself
A righteous man regardeth the life of his beast: but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.
face it, woman took a pretty hard hit at the fall,more so than man and hard enough for God to place certain restrictions on you listed throughout the word of God to keep you from straying,certain restrictions to keep the structure and order, certain restriction to keep you safe and in place as God sees fit because left alone and by yourself you will wander and wander and wander into all kinds of dangerous places because without that covering, without that protection, without that guidance just like a vessel without a captain you will surely be on a collision course to wash up and smash against the rocky shore or drift with the tide into the shallows and run amuck
refuse in the following verse is translated from the original texts by the strongs bible concordance book in the king james version as,,,to beg off,deprecate,decline,shun- avoid,( make) excuse, intreat, refuse,reject
Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one man.
Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints'feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work.
But the younger widows refuse: for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry;
Having damnation, because they have cast off their first faith.
And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies,
speaking things which they ought not.
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
For some are already turned aside after Satan.
1 Timothy 5:9-15
the word of God here speaks of widows, once believers mind you who's husbands unfortunately died and were left alone without proper instruction and supervision that have become undesirables, involving them self in affairs of others wandering around and poking their nose in matters you simply have no business getting involved with and are only asking to make trouble,God openly warns the Godly men to stay away from and even flat out refuse women like this, tattlers, busybody's, speaking things which they ought not till such a time they come to a mature age and realize their damnation, marry and return to the stability and submission and guidance and reverence of a husband, no Godly man in his right mind will even come close to, let alone touch a woman like this, why, because the word of God to man says so,,
reverence in the following verse is translated from the original greek texts by the strongs bible concordance web page in the king james version as,,
to put to flight by terrifying (to scare away),
to put to flight, to flee,to fear, be afraid,to be struck with fear, to be seized with alarm, of those startled by strange sights or occurrences,of those struck with amazement,to fear, be afraid of one,to fear (i.e. hesitate) to do something (for fear of harm) to reverence, venerate, to treat with deference or reverential obedience and is from the greek root word>>phobos, pronounced fo'-bos meaning ,,,fear, dread, terror,that which strikes terror,reverence for one's husband
Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Ephesians 5:33 kjv great reading whole chapter
God uses these rogue wandering women described above as examples for the Godly men to stay away from and for the younger women of examples not to be, because of this God tells the young women marry and bear children and guide the house to keep them from sniffing around as to give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully,what God is saying is women have to behave, have to conduct your self in a proper and respectable manner at all times in order to be appealing to a man of God and function correctly in a Godly marriage because away from that covering, and away from that protection, away from that shelter and exposed to the ways of the world will pick at,and chip away, erode and drain every bit of that innocence and purity and vulnerability God gave you, this is a clear picture to the hardened heart, free spirited,loud mouthed,opinionated, demanding, must have it now, spiteful, manipulative, draws attention to herself,independent,contentious, vain and robust roaring woman of the world turned aside after satan, surely God is not involved in these womens lives
God gave man guidelines as to the formula and equation to go by when taking a widow in the scripture above, having been the wife of one man, Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints' feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work, there are a lot of if's here girls and for a very good reason because just like the man of God, the woman of God must first be proved, she must be worthy, she must be experienced,do you understand what the word of God is saying? you have to be worthy of a husband, and just as important, your husband must be worthy of you
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.