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A Long Term Relationship
Do you drink?
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Do you have children?
Do you want children?
Bowling (it's a good workout as well!), Hiking (I'm originally from the PNW; some great trails & scenery), Skiing (though I'm less tolerant or liking of cold weather these days), Soccer, Tennis, Working out (I need someone to spot me when I bench 800 l
1/1/19 update - Up for auction. Seeking serious, spiritually-minded bidders.
Yes, I'm very real. No, I'm not perfect, but I hope it will be appreciated that a lot of effort was put into this extensive profile to prove that I am who I say I am. If you have noticed the effort that was put into "composing myself" on here, what does that tell you about the amount of effort I'd put into a friendship / relationship? ;)
With God's help, I PROMISE I'll STRIVE to: do to you what Spring does to cherry trees: make you BLOSSOM!...
...& also, be the man who nourishes, protects, helps lead you in "...the way & the truth..."
Before I scare you off ( ) with so much detail, so many "requirements," such high standards, etc., PLEASE consider that I am a person who not only pushes MYSELF, but WILL ALSO GENTLY PUSH YOU, to slightly past feasible limits, so that we can be THE BEST human beings when the LORD calls us home / when we bow our knee before Him (see Power Couples below). You will ONLY grow, when you step outside of your comfort zone! Having said this, I AM FULLY COGNIZANT that we (will) both have our shortcomings (though this shouldn't prevent us from shooting high! "Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll still land among the stars!").
Please DO NOT let my fiery confidence deter you from messaging me! I'm just a simple man, who has been blessed by the Creator of heaven & earth, to know Him (& His Son) jus' a wee bit more. If you have questions about a topic, & I send you links, it is not to brush you off, but rather to provide you with what I absolutely KNOW is a better, more detailed explanation, SATURATED with Biblical scripture for support (remember, I am attempting to go by what GOD ultimately says, rather than man's/woman's feelings).
EVERY. SINGLE. word in this profile is carefully thought out (with constant revisions) & placed in its appropriate place. I am big on grammar, punctuation, & spelling, hence: detail (it's truly what makes communicating enjoyable), but I'm a VERY easy young man to get along with! I'm not going to be upset if you're from a different country & English isn't your native tongue =)
I'd like to find a BEST FRIEND (age range: early 20's - early ~30's) who:
- first & foremost, has an independent fear of the LORD (goes by what the BIBLE SAYS, not man's traditions)
...& possesses as many of the traits down below as possible:
- easy to connect & communicate with
- meek & quiet
- not overly sarcastic, please?
- also driven & ambitious (either in a career (within limits) and/or at home)
- financially frugal (but can spend a good dollar on quality)
- likes to explore
- cooks (or willing to learn & experiment) / try new foods
- & last but not least important, is someone who... Well, let's talk about that in person ;)
To answer the question more fully, the type of relationship I'm looking for:
POWER COUPLE: like the Bible describes this incredible concept - Deborah (Lapidoth), Jael (Heber), great woman of Shunem (old husband), Aquila & Priscilla, household of Stephanas, Jonathan & Sarah Edwards, etc. POWER COUPLES MAXIMIZE THE MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP FOR THE KINGDOM OF GOD (a side benefit is they are usually the happiest couples). THEY INDIVIDUALLY PRACTICE GODLINESS, HELP THE OTHER SPOUSE IMPROVE IN IT, & SYNERGISTICALLY SERVE THE CHURCH & OTHERS. Remember, two are better than one. These couples set high kingdom goals above high natural or American goals; they are never content with the status quo, for they want to be growing as God expects. Every church has three categories of couples - great, average, & losers. In every marriage it is a choice, almost entirely by the husband, whether his marriage will be a power couple & his family a power family.
A little bit more about POWER COUPLES - Any worldly use of this term is worthless. A Christian power couple is like Aquila & Priscilla (converted Apollos, mutual business partnership in tent-making, hosted & supported Paul, church in their house, wide apostolic reputation, etc.). Power couples are exceptional by A PASSIONATE, ROMANTIC MARRIAGE FOR OTHERS TO FOLLOW ... both loving Jesus Christ supremely & publicly ... both serving the body of Christ individually & personally ... their home is wide open for hospitality & entertainment ... they counsel, convert, & teach others spiritual & life lessons ... they are involved in a wide range of kingdom activities ... they participate passionately in all worship & church functions ... they show initiative & creativity serving others ... they are willing to spend & be spent for others ... they have a great professional trajectory for one or both ... THEY CRAVE & APPLY THEMSELVES TO LEARNING THE BIBLE ... their children are exemplary as selfless servants of others, etc. This is the better reason to get married & should be the goal of every Christian marriage.
To find out more, please read the DISCLAIMER section down below...
Grab a bite to eat at a local eatery... or some coffee (you can drink it, & I can savor the delicious aroma)... A group activity with some friends, such as bowling, or cooking a great meal, playing a few board games, watching a great film... Or going to a viewpoint to see the surrounding area.
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