Why do christian woman prefer a non-christian husband? Posted : 5 Apr, 2018 12:11 AM
Isnt that just making excuses for bad life choices? Calling the unfaithful good and the faithful bad.... and then you end up in a Godless marriage.... you get what you pay for and in maarriage you HAVE to give up most of yourself otherwise it fails somewhere down the road. Marriage is not the teenage fantasy of love at first sight, long romance then happily ever after. There is NO perfect husband the ones that look like it only LOOK like it.... many times \"perfect husbands\" are only so shiny because their wifes did the sacrifice of shining them with themselves... almost NO successful man gets that good without a woman behind him... which does not mean find a random slob and \"fix him up\" that would just be stupid, it means look beyond the now into the possible tomorrow... if he already has everything what would he need you for other than sex? Also (general observation) if you are a woman older than 30 and still unmarried then YOU are automatically of lesser marriageable quality and after 40 you are def not \"perfect wife\" material either.... the sword cuts both ways. The ideal wife by worldly standards will always be 23-25jrs old and generally fawningly obedient and the ideal husband will always be filled with money or \"success\" as it\'s often euphemised and strong with natural confidence. Nice if you can get either but not universal and for many only the fantasy that such ideals are. Men are equally guilty in that they generally also struggle to shake their own (usually more physically defined) genetic directives... luckily it only takes one random man/woman accidentally stumbling through such defenses to make a man/woman reboot his/her mentality. My point is reality does not care about want\'s or other excuses, need\'s and not being terrified of potential responsibilities are more important.