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Thread: Is America desirable to the Eastern women (arab, Indian, Asian, etc)

Is America desirable to the Eastern women (arab, Indian, Asian, etc) Posted : 15 Apr, 2019 02:15 AM

So I\'m hoping to get diverse feedback concerning the subject of immigration to the US. Being American, and influenced as such, I have the impression that the US is an easy pick...Especially so to people that have experienced any kind of oppression due to ethnicity, gender, religion, sexual orientation, disabilities, etc. Freedom and liberty were the two fundamental principals that shaped this country (admittingly, it took lots of blood and hundreds of years before those rights were actually granted to EVERYBODY). Still though, these values are central to what the country represents and promises. Indeed, this is the land of the free, but unfortunately, it seems too that this is a land that endorses what God describes as abominations (gay marriage, sex change operations, sorcery (drugs), etc). America will answer for these transgressions one day, but for now, my sole duty as both a Christian and American is to love thy neighbor as thyself and pray for everyone (not my place to judge). Back to the original subject concerning Eastern women migrating to the USA and it being a desirable option or not. I inquire specifically about Arab and Indian women for the reason I am aware that India has a notorious history with incompetent police that often ignore women\'s complaints of being sexually assaulted. I was once told too, by an Indian woman... on here actually years ago, that she refused to date, much less marry, an Indian man due to prior experiences of them being abusive in one form or another. She portrayed it as a cultural issue initially. However, She did later marry an Indian man despite her earlier oath to never. Last I saw they were 10 years married and she couldn\'t look happier! Guess the stereotype was wrong. Now addressing the Arab women. Depending on which country you reside I have the understanding that females are viewed as inferior to males in most matters and are required to live a restricted lifestyle (no working, no driving, limited social interaction, etc). As I\'m sure you are aware too... Also, a lot of those countries over there have a long record of harassing non-Muslims, and worst so if they are female. As I

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Thread: Is America desirable to the Eastern women (arab, Indian, Asian, etc)

Posted : 15 Apr, 2019 03:16 AM

oops, posted prematurely....So to get to the point. I want to know if the living conditions are as poor as I described, and if so, why do you stay. I do understand that family means a lot in the aforementioned cultures but I imagine too that a loving family would encourage their daughter/sister/niece to chase their dreams of a more prosperous life, but of course I would need to be assured that she would be cared for.

Now the option to migrating to America can be obtained in several ways ranging from Work Visas, Student Visas, Refugee status, and of course the fast track to citizenship by marriage (5 years and then eligible to take citizenship test). As mentioned above, options are available to get here, but marrying a citizen is the fastest, simplest route.....

SO, AS TO WHY I'M INQUIRING. BRIEFLY SAID: I AM 31 YEARS OLD FINALLY ESTABLISHING MY CAREER AS AN ELEVATOR MECHANIC... NEVER MARRIED, NO CHILDREN, AND I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY COMPLAINTS TO SPEAK OF. I ENJOY TRAVELLING ACROSS THE US WITH MY JOB WHILE MAKING THE MOST OF EVERY STOP (VISITING MUSEUMS, AQUARIUMS, ZOOS, RESTAURANTS, FESTIVALS, SPORTING EVENTS, ETC). WHILE I DO FULLY ENJOY MY ADVENTURES, I MUST ADMIT IT GETS LONESOME SOMETIMES. AND FOR THAT REASON I AM CONSIDERING A "I HELP ME-YOU HELP ME" DEAL. MY HELP WOULD BE TO PROVIDE HER A WAY TO AMERICA. IN RETURN I AM WANTING A TRUSTING ROOMMATE/ GOOD FRIEND ARRANGEMENT. TO BE CLEAR, IT WOULD BE HUSBAND/WIFE ON PAPER ONLY... I LOOK AT THE 5 YEAR ARRANGEMENT INVOLVED AND CAN'T HELP BUT REASONABLLY ASSUME WE WOULD HAVE TO LOVE EACH OTHER AFTER 5 YEARS TOGETHER... HOWEVER, THAT DOESN'T MEAN WE WOULD BE "IN LOVE" AND IF THERE IS NO "IN LOVE" THEN THAT MEANS THERE REALLY IS NO FUTURE AND I WOULD HAVE TO LET HER GO. STILL I BELIEVE I END UP AHEAD BECAUSE I WILL BE A FRIEND RICHER UPON THE END OF THE ARRANGEMENT.

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Thread: Is America desirable to the Eastern women (arab, Indian, Asian, etc)

Posted : 3 Jun, 2019 08:50 PM

Reply to American desirable to the Eastern women (arab,Indian,Asian,etc) well The person that wrote about this is not explaining all correctly ..Women are allowed to drive ,do jobs ,etc The only arab country which is very stricter is Saudi Arabia but it all depends on the class in families..and I personally know alot Arab families and I visited an arab country ..when a girl marries a guy and he is well off to take care of her ..women decide to be housewife to give a good brought up to child and give time to child ..and they go to do activities they like ..their husbands provide them with a good life ,given money for their needs and provide them with servants to make it easier for wife ..and most families want their daughters highly educated..and most marriages are arranged but the girl meets guy in front of family and ask if she like him or not ..I visited and saw all ..India is liberal not stricted ..usually all family that are not that educated ,these are the ones ,that usually force daughters on parents choice..so every country in the world has their up and downs ..even in Latin countries ..even in Anerica

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