Video Chatting Posted : 1 Feb, 2019 11:46 AM
I am very slow to give out my number. The reason is that if you have a real psycho on your hands, they're harder to get rid of if they have personal information. But if I make an email exclusively for dating sites and chatting, I can easily walk away. And I have been harrassed through both forms of communication to atest to the easy of dismissal. So I was asking a guy to video chat on here. He cursed me out. I like to video chat because I can see someone's facial expressions that way. I once talked on the phone with a guy that made my toes curl to merely hear his voice. But what was detrimental was the silences. Once I saw him on video chat I knew I was not safe with this man; me nor my child. His body language and facial expressions told me far more than a phone convo could. I miss his voice but I felt safer after we stopped communicating. I say that to say this: "Taking the convo off the site" doesn't mean scammer, liar, psycho or some similar villiany. It could just mean that the person on the other end is being cautious. That they want to meet you in safe ways while they get to know you.