Posted : 4 Jan, 2019 06:17 AM
With these replies i can see the reason why many marriages in this modern age don't last. Find any woman who is or has been in a marriage that has lasted for years (from 10 years on); ask them what responsibilities they had to make sure they make their husband happy and helped their marriage to work. Trust me, cooking and general house management, including cleaning will be the main.
Perhaps you comment they way you do to please some ladies you are attracted to that it will be easy if they chose you. Marriages are not easy. They come with responsibilities. In fact, there is division of labor between husband and wife. Husband is family's bread winner, wife is a home manager. It has been that way. New changes will never make marriages better. Today, women are bread winners too. That doesn't change their position in marriage, they remain house managers and not bread winners. Today, men can cook, clean and do all other chores, but it doesn't change their position as bread winners. That is how it was supposed to be. Go against it and your in trouble. If each stands on they responsibilities, then there is peace. Contrary to that, no peace, hence, divorce .